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Useful Marriage Tips From Divorce Lawyers

Posted by James Cummings | Jan 06, 2016 | 0 Comments

According to recent statistics for the United States, nearly half of all first marriages will end in divorce. Things don't get much more optimistic for individuals who are willing to try again, either. Statistics show that approximately 65 percent of second marriages, and 73 percent of third marriages also meet this unhappy end. Ever optimistic, however, many Americans still choose to take their relationship to the next level every year. Though necessary in many cases, divorce can be an emotionally trying and financially taxing affair. As divorce lawyers in the Waterbury area, we see the good, the bad, and the ugly. It's taught us a lot about relationships and what they can do to be insulated from the “destiny” of divorce. Here are some of our favorite tips.


In far too many cases, divorce lawyers are hired by men and women who feel that they've been taken for granted in their relationships. Sometimes it seems like once the marriage certificate is signed, couples no longer feel that they have to put any effort into keeping their partner interested. They assume that the sacred nature of marriage alone will be strong enough to keep the relationship in tact. Take it from us, it won't.


No one likes to be ignored. Just ask any little toddler who's shouting “MOM!” for the nine-thousandth time because they haven't yet received a satisfactory response. Although we might handle this feeling more maturely as adults, the feeling of rejection remains equally as infuriating. Many relationship experts will tell you how important it is to listen to your partner, but it's also important to do something with the information you hear. Successful relationships are built on dialogue, not one person who talks and one person who listens.


Another common thing we see as divorce lawyers are couples who seemed shocked to find out that real life isn't the fairy tale. Once the “honeymoon” ends, the often repetitive nature of the adult world kicks in. In some cases, the future that you planned is pushed aside by lay-offs, unexpected pregnancies, car accidents, and other negative things that are part of the lows of life. Not getting bogged down by these low points, and always remembering that the good days will return is essential for sticking together.

Wish someone had shared these tips with you before you got married? We understand. As top rated divorce lawyers in the Waterbury area, we're ready to assist you even if your marriage can't be salvaged. Contact Cummings Law Firm today.

About the Author

James Cummings

James lives in Southbury with his wife, Lynn, and their children, James, and Chloe. He enjoys skiing and fishing in his spare time, and is actively involved in local civil affairs in his hometown of Southbury and the greater Waterbury area.


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